HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU.
According to William James “one of the deepest drives of human nature is the desire to be appreciated”
Despite your attainment in fame, wealth, position and power you we never get everybody to like you. There is in human nature whereby some people just naturally wont like you.
However there are formulas, which follow faithfully, can make you a person whom other people like.
…Learn to remember names .A man’s name is “VERY” important.
…Be a comfortable individual. Be homey.
…Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-goingness.
…Don’t be egotistical. Guard against giving impression you know it all.
…Cultivate the quality of being interesting so that people will want to be with you and get something value from their association with you.
…Study to get the “scratchy” elements out of your personality.
…Drain off your grievances with people and sincerely attempt to heal all misunderstanding you have had or now have.
…Practice liking people until you learn to do so genuinely.
…Never miss an opportunity to say a word of congratulation upon anyone’s success or achievement or sympathy in sorrow or disappointment.
…Get a deep spiritual experience so that you have something to give to people that we help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively. Give strength to people and they will give affection to you.
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